The Fornication Compromise and The Big One

The Fornication Compromise concerns sexual intercourse between lovers as it pertains to marriage.

“Wait until marriage” remains effective, however, because of cultural changes that is becoming less and less realistic for people because of the different means of contraception, hygiene, and amazing cultural promiscuity.

So, “wait until you are engaged”, is now the unofficial rule as I have decided on a whim to simplify things for myself and everyone.

I was conflicted on this topic, because I have no problems with or moral inhibition when it comes to sexual intercourse outside of marriage or of any kind. I do not like anal sex, but that is not a moral concern of mine, just a preference because I think it is gross. However… I suppose if my beloved desired such a thing, I would not be opposed to providing the pleasure of it. At the same time, I believe waiting until marriage is the best because a lot of women I have met only consider men as sexual objects for them to use, and have no respect for our personality, gifts, or anything else really. They are simply concerned with a man’s sex organs; big enough? hard enough? circumcised enough?

If a maiden is asking any of those questions, reject her with a rebuke as a whore. She is a vile creature unworthy of human civilization. Do not even waste your time talking with such a wretched person. It will only bring you unhappiness because she will never respect you, appreciate you, nor love you. All you will be to her is an object of sexual pleasure. That happens so much in the USA that I am inclined to wait until marriage with a partner because I want to know she actually sees me as a human person, and not some dildo boy toy of hers.

Obesity with women is different because that is not sexual, and men are always ugly so it doesn’t matter how fat, hairy, pretty, symmetric, or handsome you may be. Sorry if that doesn’t seem fair, but it is truth, and rather than be mad, women should take advantage of that for themselves by making the most of what they have, because that is all that beauty requires. That is simply sight. They are unpleasant to the eyes in all situations and I do not even want to look at them. That would make daily life unpleasant, and it is not a sexual thing. I don’t mind other stuff people may reject that is simply the way a person was born, but obesity just doesn’t work that way, with the exception of the rarest situations when a larger maiden looks good, but that is extremely rare and not worth accounting for as a possibility.

I am also very sexually promiscuous and extremely easy… so, I can be seduced into sex without much resistance at any time. That’s just one of the unfortunate conditions of being a nymphomaniac like myself. So… realistically, I have never been able to even get close to waiting until marriage, and am not trying to just get married immediately to bypass the wait, but… that doesn’t work either because women think I’m crazy for wanting to do that.

As a result, waiting until you are engaged is an acceptable compromise. Being “engaged” means one partner asks the other person to marry them, they other person agrees, and they become promised to each other to do so. After that they make the arrangements for the wedding and life together. I think as long as we can promise each other that is going to happen, then it is safe to have sex without feeling objectified by a whore who has no respect for herself nor men.

Part Two: The Big One

The concept of mystical understanding and truth requiring great understanding that is inaccessible without extensive study. That is “The Big One”.

Faith accepts the truth of it without understanding. However, it can be understand practically and in logical ways of rational thought. That is what requires the extensive study and contemplation. A person must learn about everything, all subjects; biology, chemistry, physics, astronomy, astrology, geology, history, art, literature, politics, military strategy, religion, and whatever else there is. One doesn’t need to know everything about all that, but they do need to understand enough of all that to have a solid grasp of subject.

Some things maybe you know more than others, and if you are a mystic, that is typically something religious or theological, but I suppose it doesn’t have to be. You also need practical life experience that can contextualize what you learn. Why it is important, how it applies to our daily lives, what it makes possible, etc. So you need a variety of life experiences doing different things to learn about different ways of life, people, and work. You definitely need a lot of work experience in the real world too. I think manual labor is the best, but I think it should be possible with the more fancy ivory tower jobs, but it that kind of stuff is less relevant to everyday life to be practical for “The Big One”.

It is often called by alchemists “the Great Work”, and that is why work is important, and it can be symbolized by mystics with the image of a wheel of labor. The purpose is this: with all those different subjects, they form points around “The Big One”, and when you have enough of them, have contemplated them enough, have experiences seeing how they apply to each other, and begun to see clearly how interconnected everything is, then eventually “the Big One” will dawn on a person, and it will be like a Vacation Christmas House lighting up for the first time.

You will see the whole thing in glorious splendor and magnificence to admire it and feel good about yourself for having done it. Many people, children and those with the childlike hearts that are pure, will find that work brilliant and delightful to see as they pass by, and it will bring a bit of happiness into the world too, so you can feel justified for doing something good. Ultimately though, you have to go back inside and meet all the relatives, in-laws, and other people who are there and… well, maybe you should just watch the movie.

The point is that effort is laborious, time consuming, requires extraordinary dedication, and is highly impractical for a lot of people’s unique purposes. It is totally normal to want to focus on something for a specific goal and achieve that goal, such as being a medical professional, or engineer, or anything else, or to not want to do such excessive labor either. You can focus on those things and do that labor too, but that is like being going to two different medical schools at the same time, so you probably won’t have time for much else.

That is why it is difficult to understand and is mystified. It is not to mislead people, confuse them, or hide something. It is to simplify and make clear for the express purpose of revealing what is hidden. The mystery is made comprehensible with Story, images, and fantastical concepts to convey the purpose, truth, and meaning of a message about “The Big One” without needing to do all that work yourself to see how it all fits together in a rational, ordered way that justifies faith and religion.

Children do not have that ability because they have not had enough time to possibly do all that is required. What children do have is intuition, natural imaginative thinking, and purity of heart that can understand, interpret, and conceptualize that kind of stuff to a limited degree, but you cannot rely on what children can do because they do not understand the fullness that is needed. This is something you can do on your own, in a school, with a partner or group, or any other way applicable.

Despite the metaphor I used earlier… it is extremely useful in everyday life when it is complete. There are unlimited applications of what that understanding can be used for. Furthermore, there is a level beyond the understanding that transcends “the Big One” to a greater mystery that cannot possibly be explained. That… is another effort entirely, and even more difficult than the first one. That one requires a fulness of understanding that includes death of self. Meaning you have to quite literally, die. This is conceptually possible without bodily death, but it can also happen by accident if you do in fact die and come back to life. You should not be fooling around with this stuff. The intention of why you are pursuing such things makes all the difference in whether the outcome is a success or a failure, and that is why you never need to worry about evil gaining such power as it accomplishes.

That power is like the one that I happened to acquire to do all this work that I do. It is like finally being able to see the Matrix like Neo in the movie. Except… there is not “only one”. Any number of people can do that. It is highly unlikely though, you should not try to do it, and I do not recommend it. If you try to do that, you will surely die, but you are not guaranteed to come back to life. It’s certainly worth it, if you succeed because of the reason of your intention, but if that is in any way corrupt, impure, or false… you will fail. The slightest corruption will cause total failure. The smallest trace of it is death without resurrection.

There is a safer way to do that without risking bodily death and being able to enjoy the benefits and that is the mystery of Christianity via the death of the Christ on the Cross. You don’t immediately gain the fullness of all that power, but you do gain free access to it, and the more you work, practice, and use your faith in daily life, the more that power grows and the more you become capable of accepting. If you do it the other way, like I did… by the time you are done, you are already capable of accepting quite a bit of that power because of how the “Great Work” has prepared you for it.

No matter what, power is useless and irrelevant if you do not put it to use, so if you seek more power, you should always have an idea, intention, or willingness to put that power to work for creating goodness in the world.

So… do not be offended by the mystery of mystical knowledge. There is no need to covet that as though it is a sign of superiority or power. That is not what it is like, otherwise it would not be with those who have it!

End.

The Fornication Compromise is also unofficially known as “Committing Dashboard Witness”.